Wednesday, April 25, 2018

EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS

Adultery can be Single or Double depending on whether one or    both are married. Why is Extra-Marital Affair wrong?

1. The word given on the wedding day is a serious word. They contradict the significance of  the sexual gesture performed with the spouse.
Sexual gesture points to a reciprocal gift and interior union. Relationship with a third party contradicts it.
2. Sexual act in Marriage  expresses a fundamental option  for the spouse.
Extra Marital Act directly compromises two persons in reciprocal                      choice and self-donation.
3. It destroys the  intimacy of conjugal dialogue and uniqueness of the sexual language.
* Human person uses several languages. The Sexual gesture is the secret language reserved only for spouses. Extra- Marital Affairs becomes a betrayal of a secret.
4. Contradicts the basic respect due for a Human person.
- Person unique and non-exchangeable
- We exchange things but not persons
- Extra Marital Affair - people regard others not as a person but as a partner.

How healthy would a marriage be if the couple were unfaithful to their wedding vows?

In the   domain of    sexuality what is Jesus Calling us to?

* Neither sexual slavery nor sexual repression
* But Sexual Redemption
* Lust blinds us to the true beauty of the  human  body & of the true marital love.

The SPOUSES are MINISTERS

* MINISTERS of love and life
* Marital COVENANT is a permanent bond
* The marital covenant mirrors the DIVINE Covenant: The Christ-Church Union 
* Married couple a living sign in the world.
* Marriage - a loving sign that communicates Permanence,togetherness & happiness.

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