Entered by those unmarried or in preparation for marriage.
Why is Pre-Marital Sex is Wrong?
1. They behave as spouses before they become.
Sexual intercourse is a "typical expression"
and unique to marital Union. Hence to
perform it they should be married couples,
2. They distort and reduce the marriage
commitment.
* The decisive act of self-giving and
acceptance is valid if expressed in
particular moment of time (celebration or
sacrament) This commitment is not a
private affair but has to be made publicly.
3. They point to a false language.
*. Sexual act is a language which is deep and
Expressed between two married people.
*. Sexual interaction uses a deep and
exclusive language. In PMS they use a
language and do not mean it. Therefore, it
is cheating. They give their bodies but not
themselves. Therefore, no self-giving. It is
dissection of the person, they give their
body but not their inner selves.
4. They act intentionally against the
Procreative and of marriage - use of
contraception
5. One cannot use persons, but only things.
The sexual gesture is done without any
interior meaning.
6. Such actions leave in them a deep sense of
psychological incompleteness.
*. whole person not involved.
*. develop a 'playboy and playgirl psychology'
For those preparing for marriage the Church
would say: Genuine Love is tested by its
openness to make sacrifices.
Why is Pre-Marital Sex is Wrong?
1. They behave as spouses before they become.
Sexual intercourse is a "typical expression"
and unique to marital Union. Hence to
perform it they should be married couples,
2. They distort and reduce the marriage
commitment.
* The decisive act of self-giving and
acceptance is valid if expressed in
particular moment of time (celebration or
sacrament) This commitment is not a
private affair but has to be made publicly.
3. They point to a false language.
*. Sexual act is a language which is deep and
Expressed between two married people.
*. Sexual interaction uses a deep and
exclusive language. In PMS they use a
language and do not mean it. Therefore, it
is cheating. They give their bodies but not
themselves. Therefore, no self-giving. It is
dissection of the person, they give their
body but not their inner selves.
4. They act intentionally against the
Procreative and of marriage - use of
contraception
5. One cannot use persons, but only things.
The sexual gesture is done without any
interior meaning.
6. Such actions leave in them a deep sense of
psychological incompleteness.
*. whole person not involved.
*. develop a 'playboy and playgirl psychology'
For those preparing for marriage the Church
would say: Genuine Love is tested by its
openness to make sacrifices.
