PRE-MARITAL SEXUAL RELATIONS

Entered by those unmarried or in preparation for marriage.
Why is Pre-Marital Sex is Wrong?
1. They behave as spouses before they become.
     Sexual intercourse is a "typical expression"
     and unique to marital Union. Hence to   
     perform it they should be married couples,
2.  They distort and reduce the marriage  
      commitment.
*     The decisive act of self-giving and   
       acceptance is valid if expressed in 
       particular moment of time (celebration or
       sacrament) This commitment is not a
       private affair but has to be made publicly.
3.    They point to a false language.
*.     Sexual act is a language which is deep and
       Expressed between two married people.
*.     Sexual interaction uses a deep and 
       exclusive language. In PMS they use a 
       language and do not mean it. Therefore, it
       is cheating. They give their bodies but not 
       themselves. Therefore, no self-giving. It is
       dissection of the person, they give their
       body but not their inner selves.
4.   They act intentionally against the 
      Procreative and of marriage - use of 
      contraception 
5.   One cannot use persons, but only things. 
      The sexual gesture is done without any
      interior meaning.
6.   Such actions leave in them a deep sense of
      psychological incompleteness.
*.    whole person not involved.
*.    develop a 'playboy and playgirl psychology'

For those preparing for marriage the Church
would say: Genuine Love is tested by its 
openness to make sacrifices.